Doctors Negligence Kills 2 Innocent Souls; We Want Justice – #justiceformyfriend #justiceforaparna

As I write this, my eyes filled with tears, as we (Family-Friends) lost our loved ones.

This girl, who was apple of both families, celebrated her birthday as well as anniversary recently. I still remember, both friends’ (Aparna and Chethan) status (waiting for you). It is so painful to even think that she is no more with us and the pain my friend (Aparna’s husband) is undergoing, cannot be felt by anyone.

Aparna had left her home happily by arranging almost everything for her lil one, who was to arrive shortly.

We all friends even had a chat, a few days before, and we were waiting for the baby’s arrival.

Aparna, who never thought of hurting anyone even by mistake – was one of the beautiful souls. She was admitted to the Motherhood hospital (Sahakarnagar) for her delivery, with lot of dreams and hopes, but never returned back! The hospital negligence not only killed her, but also another innocent life that hadn’t even opened its eyes – her and her husband’s lil Prince.

Aparna’s husband Chethan, who is also my friend, had also pinned lot of hopes on doctors. He trusted them and sent his wife confidently, thinking the docs would save his wife and the lil one, but his dreams were shattered! Both their families and we (friends) have lost two innocent souls, and that too because of doctors who call themselves as saviours’ negligence. We now need justice so that none other should undergo the pain that our friend has underwent.

9 months of love and care that Aparna and her family had taken to bring the new born to this world has totally gone in vain and why? NEGLIGANCE! Only a woman knows how much love and pain she undergoes keeping her lil one in the womb and eagerly waiting for those lovely cute lil hands to hold her, but all the dreams shattered!

RIP APARNA

Who else other than doctors will know that every minute counts for a person who is in the hospital? Why was this case neglected? Had it been a celebrity or politician, a doctor would always be around and without wasting a second, they would have taken care of those celebs. Why isn’t this treatment not given to a normal-common man?

Just because of negligence, the two innocent lives are not with us. We want justice, and we hope the filthy rich people associated with the hospitals do not manipulate the proofs and the truth comes out.

Also, this should not happen with any other person. Please share this incident so that others are aware of this hospital and such negligance, and do not undergo the same sufferings.

Pray for justice. We want #justiceforaparna #justiceformyfriend…

RIP APARNA & LIL PRINCE – YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MISSED

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TAKEN FROM TOI

Aparna, 26, a resident of Yelahanka New Town, and a triple graduate working with a private bank, was said to be completely normal when she was admitted to Motherhood Hospital on Tuesday evening.

Aparna died on Tuesday on the operation table at Motherhood hospital in Sahakar Nagar, north Bengaluru. The infant was critical and shifted to Rainbow Hospital.

On Wednesday, the boy was taken off the ventilator as doctors saw no hope of his recovery. They told the family that even if the baby miraculously survived, he’d have to live with both mental and physical conditions. “We were told his survival chances were less than 1%. We had to make the painful decision of letting the baby off life-support,” said Smitha Naveen, Aparna’s sister-in-law. “We are waiting for the postmortem report,” she added.

She was reportedly given pain-inducing medicines (tablets) thrice, at intervals of two hours. “The first dose was given at 10pm on Tuesday, then at midnight and again at 2am. Early morning, she sensed some pain and also some discharge from the vagina. She was given a bedpan. She didn’t walk anywhere. They realized the baby had passed stool, which was coming out. She was taken to the OT at 5.30am and was brought out dead at 8.30am. Her face was pale and cold. She might have died earlier,” Smitha Naveen, Aparna’s sister-in-law had alleged.
Dr Mohammed Rehan Sayeed, chairman of Motherhood Hospitals, denied any negligence, saying, “It looks like a case of pulmonary embolism, a condition that creates a blockage in one of the pulmonary arteries in the lungs.”

(Complete article here: http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/bengaluru/Infant-dies-a-day-after-mother-succumbs-in-OT/articleshow/49512565.cms?from=mdr)

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An FIR has been filled by my friend’s husband and her brother, but we fear the case might be suppressed by the hospital management by their powerful influence. We request public to help get the family fair justice with proper interrogation by spreading this message across your group of friends to ensure media continues to follow up with the case until justice is prevailed.

Please forward this message to all your group members and show solidarity towards the family of the deceased and help them get a fair trial.

‘Special Gift’ FRIENDS – Happy Friendship Day

‘Special Gift’ FRIENDS – Happy Friendship Day

After ‘Family’, it’s only ‘Friends’ who understand you better. You may see a very good friend in your mom, dad, brother or sister, but when it comes to sharing, it’s none other than FRIENDS. You do not think twice before sharing anything with your friends. William Shakespeare said, “A friend is one that knows you as you are, understands where you have been, accepts what you have become, and still, gently allows you to grow,” which is really true.

I met most precious and golden friends during my golden days – School days. It is said that school friends are friends for ever and it is very true…http://www.boldsky.com/relationship/beyond-love/2012/friendship-day-dedication-from-reader-030212.html

Click on the above link to know more…

Top 5 Reasons Why You Should Not Get Married

Reasons Why You Should Not Get Married

The story starts with this line “Someone somewhere is made for you”. This holds true in everyone’s life. In every Man’s life there is a Woman and vice-versa. When they find that someone they automatically get into wedlock-Marriage which in other term is called as JAIL. If you are happy alone why should any get married?

It’s a human tendency that when a person gets involved in something new he/she will be excited, but that excitement doesn’t end long. It’s always short term. Marriage is also something where the couple will be excited for a while in the start, because they will be starting their new phase of life, but after sometime they will lose that excitement.

Newly married people or one who is getting married will be so happy that they won’t see any one around. They are in their own world, and they love that world. Many couple who aren’t happy with marriage, say that they shouldn’t have got married. But I think this quote by Socrates is true, “By all means, marry. If you get a good wife, you’ll become happy; if you get a bad one, you’ll become a philosopher.”

Top 5 Reasons Why You Should Not Get Married:

Freedom: The first and foremost thing you will lose is freedom. You can’t do whatever you want. For everything you have to ask for permission and if you don’t then you are considered as bad wife or husband.  You will lose your independence. You need to share each and everything with your partner. No secrets,  no bachelor parties…

Friendship: From school to college to office the friendship you had been maintained will have the chances of getting lost somewhere. You can’t be the same with everyone. Your husband/wife will get possessive if you start speaking to a girl/boy friend who was once upon a time you close friend. They start doubting on you if you start speaking the way how you were speaking when you were unmarried. You can’t be frank or bold.

Responsibilities and Commitments: These two are burden in every human life “Responsibilities and Commitments”. When you are single you would be having responsibilities but it is less compared to the one when you get married. You need to think about your wife/husband, children, in-laws… and the list goes on. Saving money for everything (home expenses), and when you have kids you will be lost in your own world. You got to commit for many things. And the responsibility to complete/finish commitment is a burden of course.

Compromise: Both men and women need to compromise in everything. Though men have less to compromise, women will be burdened “compromising”. They have to get adjusted in the new place, like or dislike. They have to get adjusted with new people around (in-laws), their food habits, their living style… When there is a fight between in-laws and wife, husband has to tackle the situation so cleverly that he shouldn’t hurt his wife (who has left her lifestyle just for him) and even in-laws (who has taken care of him from birth)…uff… this seems to be tough.  Though they fight (husband and wife) they need to compromise with each other and has to go on in life.

Age and Fashion: Many who get married and have children think its end of their life, they have lived their life and nothing more left. They live very causally. They think that they are very old now. Women feel that they are aged and they have lost their style. Before marriage the same girl would dress so fashionably and go out and they would expect others to look at them and complement. But after marriage the same girl feels no reason step out in style. They feel, they are aged and no one would notice her (except her husband, who has to notice, as they are married now-no other way for him). This is also a reason for few men too (though not all men think the same).

By
A. Nagarathna