When the TIME will come…
Let me start with a Quote
“There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven:
a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot,
a time to kill and a time to heal, a time to tear down and a time to build,
a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance,
a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them, a time to embrace and a time to refrain,
a time to search and a time to give up, a time to keep and a time to throw away,
a time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent and a time to speak,
a time to love and a time to hate, a time for war and a time for peace.”
― Anonymous, Holy Bible: King James Version
Yes there is TIME for everything. But tell me, is there something called “RIGHT TIME”? Should we wait for it? If so, how long? Time always play hide and seek with our life. Though this quote at some point seems to be true, other times we find time is being rude to us. I can say time decides the fate and vice-versa.
When you, being a brilliant student, pass with fewer marks and your enemy passes with more in final terms, where is time (they convince you by saying next time you can try to get more marks, but where is the next time, when that was the only time to prove)??
Other case, you try hard and pass with high percentage in exams and your co-mate failed. But the person who failed is placed well in a very reputed company with very good package. You are still in a low package company and striving hard for your living. Still waiting for the right time… Again “Time will come”? When, how and where???
You work hard and even smartly too but you don’t achieve anything, you just get name but no fame (no good appraisals, no appreciation, nothing). But your colleague doesn’t work hard, he/she just works smarter… and he/she gets all name and fame… Same question here too…. “Time will come for you to prove and show how much and what you are capable of”? When, how and where???
Your girlfriend/boyfriend left you, cheated you. He or she is now happily married with someone else (touch wood). People close to us say “don’t worry he/she wasn’t for you, they don’t worth you, time will heal everything and you will get a right person”. “Damned” who wants all these…thing is “left and cheated”. “Again there is time for everything?????” What’s the use of this line?
Other case, still your ex is in contact with you. He or she calls or messages you daily…but suddenly they don’t. They say his/her wife/husband wasn’t well or say some reason and escape, but they are not ready to leave you also. What the F***, if the other person for whom they left you was really important why are they still with you. Again you will think that time will come and you will show him/her what you are?? WTH when will that time come????
These are few examples which I just recollected people saying… and I really wonder when, how and where TIME, I mean RIGHT TIME, will come or is it making us simply wait? Is it worth losing something and waiting?
– A. Nagarathna